Friday, August 21, 2020

What would you do?

This post is written to make you think about how you react to others who have a different viewpoint.

The election for the President of the United States is getting close. Are you excited to cast your vote? Not so much. Yeah! Me either.

Let’s pretend for a minute. A Democrat and Republican walked into different bars. Each was approached by a stranger that needed a ride to the polls on Election Day and ask if they would be so kind as to give them a ride. Each of the strangers mentioned that wanted to vote for the opposing party. So both the Democrat and the Republican know they would each be taking a person to vote for a candidate that they didn’t support. Would they give the strangers a ride?
     What if the scenario was slightly different? Let’s say the people in the bar weren’t strangers, but friends with a different political belief. Would that make a difference? Does your answer reflect your character? I don’t have an answer. It’s for you to decide.
     Now let’s take it one more step. Suppose it was Trump and Biden that we’re in the bar when someone asks for a ride to the polls. Each knew the rider would be voting for the other candidate. Would either get a ride? And what would they say to the strangers?
     I can think of a few responses Trump and Biden might have.  “No, I won’t take you because you are going to vote for the wrong candidate.” I can picture Trump making that statement. They could be more positive and say, “Yes I’ll take you.” but then never stop by to pick them up. That’s a response I imagine from a seasoned politician, like Biden telling you what you want to hear and doing the opposite.
     In both cases, I suspect neither voter will get a ride from Trump or Biden. So these are our choices a candidate who does whatever he wants but openly states his intentions and another that tells you what you want to hear but does whatever he wants. See the similarities. It makes you wonder if what they want is good for the country and its people or only good for them. Choose wisely. “Just Saying . . . .”
   
     

Friday, August 14, 2020

Opinions

It’s easy to get an opinion even when you don’t want one. If you’re unsure where to find these opinions look on any social media site. There’s nothing wrong with an opinion, but the way it’s said is questionable.
     Some post I’ve read are not opinions about a topic, but more a slam to someone’s character. The statement will get your attention, but not convert anyone to your side. When I was a young boy my mom told me, “If you can’t say anything good about someone, don’t say anything at all”. That’s a nice lesson to teach a child, but it’s a difficult, almost impossible standard to live by. The truth is, it wasn’t meant to be an absolute rule as much as a guide for how I should treat others.
     In today’s world it appears no one was ever taught this lesson, which is a shame, because the world does not benefit from hateful speech. I’ve learned by experience that no one has all the answers, so it’s important to listen to other opinions, but it appears that’s antiquated thinking.
     The posts on social media show that many people believe they have all the answers and they are not interested in your opinion unless it supports theirs. Politicians are an example of this bad behavior as well as all the special interest groups and it’s not because of their beliefs but how they deliver the message.
     There is one lesson we have all retained from our childhood that explains the way the world works today. That lesson is, The squeaky wheel gets the grease.  “Just Saying . . . “