People Disappoint

I'm lucky to have family and friends that lift me up. Some of the friends I have I've known since grade school and although we don't see each other frequently sharing time with them never disappoints. That's not the case with many people. Some kids grow up without support from family and friends. They have never been taught any values, either spiritual or social. They have no rules to rely on and no guidance from adults. It's not their fault it's ours. 

     As parents and adults we have the responsibility to raise our children to live a productive life. It's not easy but it's necessary. Parents need to step up and save the children. Set down some rules and enforce them. Let them know there are consequences and stand firm on those. Right now there's a lack of parental guidance and our children need guidance more than ever.

     The recent incidents with the violent fights between school kids cements the need to guide and protect our children. We have lost the bubble on teaching values. Religious values have been forgotten. We need them back. Even non-religious societies have rules and values. Society should move forward in a positive way, but we have taken a step backward. Right now we seem to be floundering in a sea of hatred. 

     The rage filled beating of the 15 year old girl was a violent, and the stabbing of a 14 year old boy are evil acts that should not go unpunished. There are no excuses for this type of behavior. Adults need to take action. Doing nothing is a sign of weakness.

     Stop justifying the bad behavior of today on the bad behavior from the past. Stop trying to find excuses, look for solutions. We need rules to live by and spiritual guidance to inspire us. Fix it now before it's too late. “Just Saying . . .”

Share your strength

I’m just going to say it. With all the crazy stuff going on in the world, it’s important that we have people with a calming voice in this ‘sea of aggression ’. Some may say that’s a little harsh, but I need help. There’s too many crazies out there, so the more calm voices we have the better chance there is to turn this negative force around. 

     It can be hard to be calm and positive when all you see or hear on the news is senseless hate and violence. I try my best and I have met many positive people, but changing the world is a daunting task. Social media sites have many aggressive people, who think they have all the answers, but I suspect they feel protected because this is not a face-to-face confrontation. So, we’ll call them non-verbal aggressors, not full fledged at this time but someone to keep on your radar. The active aggressors are out there disrupting the world. They are the ones in the news. 

     We can turn things around if we have a calm rational approach to life and express it. Silence will not help. It starts with a smile, friendly gesture, or a helpful hand. We are all different while wanting the same. A smile can turn into a laugh. A friendly gesture starts a conversation. A helping hand is an act of kindness. 

     Changes don’t usually happen quickly, but the more effort we have from the rational minority the faster change will progress. Let’s get the ball rolling in the right direction. You might surprise some of the people you meet with your friendly attitude, but their surprise will be interrupted by a smile. I’m going to make an effort to be friendly and engaging with everyone I meet. If more of us take this approach it will have a positive impact. Your greatest strength lies in the ability to share your happiness with others.

"Just Saying . . ."

Sunshine and a Smile

I woke up today to a bright sunny morning

A smile instantly spread across my face

My mood changed immediately

All it took was a little sunshine

It’s magical how sun can fix your mood

Here’s my toast to the sun

Cheers to you 

You brighten our lives

Ask for nothing

Give us hope

When we need it most

Thanks is not enough

So I give you my smile

And hope to see you tomorrow

Mustard Water

This is a silly post, and there’s nothing in it that will save the world. But, I notice odd things and this is one of them. 

    We buy store brand mustard. It’s a way of saving few bucks, but I wonder if we’re really saving anything. When I have a hot dog, yes I still eat hot dogs, I squeeze mustard on the bun, but the first thing I see is mustard water flowing out. Damn it! I don’t like mustard water. How much water is in a bottle of mustard? I’m not sure but there must be quite a bit because it seems to collect rapidly. Do the name brand mustards contain less water? 

     Years before squeeze bottles, we didn’t have this problem. We used a knife or spoon to dive into the bottle to get the mustard for our sandwich. But with the convenience of the plastic squeeze bottle we discovered the yucky mustard water. The label tells you the ingredients and one is water, but there’s no percentage of how much water it contains. I suspect name brand mustards also contain water as did the non-squeeze bottles back in the day. The bottom line is that water has always been an ingredient in mustard. 

     It’s a science thing that water is lighter than the other mustard ingredients so it rises to the top. We have learned to first squeeze the mustard into the sink to get the water out every time we use it. In doing that we also squirt a little mustard out.  Maybe if I shake the bottle before I use it that might help. I’ll have to try that. I haven’t noticed the same problem with catsup. Probably, because we store catsup bottles upside down. I just pull it out of the frig and squirt it on the sandwich. No catsup water at all. I read the label which does not have water as an ingredient, but this was Heinz so I need to check the label on a store brand. On a recent shopping trip, I did a little research and found that water is not listed as an ingredient in catsup but all mustard contain some amount of water. 

     I’m curious why is catsup in clear bottles even store brands and mustard is in colored bottles with the exception of specialty mustards like spicy hot, stone ground or honey dijon. Both catsup and mustards are colored and that color would be visible in a clear bottle. Is mustard in a colored bottle because the manufacturer doesn’t want the consumer to see all the water in the mustard bottle? Seems puzzling to me. I think the mustard producers should adopt the catsup idea by introducing upside down bottles then you then maybe we wouldn’t have to deal with mustard water until the bottle is almost empty. 

“Just Saying . . .”

  

     

Egg Noodles

My wife, Mimi and I were at Schnucks grocery store. It would be more appropriate if it was spelled Schnooks, since we check and bag our own groceries. Sorry, I couldn't resist.

    Anyway while we were shopping my wife asked me. "Do we have egg noodles at home."

    I looked up as if the answer was floating in the sky. "I don't know."

    Mimi said. "It would be nice if we had a camera in the pantry so we could  check."

    I commented. "Or even better a scanner like they have here at Schnooks. We already know how to use it, we do it weekly."

    "Yes." She replied. "We could have an inventory list of every item added or removed from the pantry."

    "The technology is already available. Some influencer should influence that idea to reality." I crossed my arms. "But, I'm sure there will be many people that would say 'Why bother' when you can shop online and they deliver your groceries to your door."

    "That's true, but we would miss our weekly adventure into the world."

    "Some people might call me weird, but I do enjoy the personal contact with strangers that you don't get with online shopping." I pause in a dreamlike state. "Think of all the interesting stories I would miss."

    "Yeah! Remember the gal at Walmart who would get in line at self check-out then continue shopping causing everyone else to wait on her."

    "Fun times." I reminisced. "Yes, she's the one who told me, 'Get over it old man'.

    "But, that was Walmart." Mimi shrugged. "That's the Serengeti of shopping experiences."

    "No kidding, No one should ever be surprised about what happens there." I handed the egg noodles to Mimi. "Let's try Dear-bergs next week. I hear some of the workers smile there."    

Act Happy to be Happy

The first step to being happy is a smile. It’s true whether you believe it or not. I see many people throughout the day that look like they just can’t take another minute of life. Walking zombies who work, but put as little effort into enjoying their job as possible. It seems to be so prevalent that when a smiling face appears, it surprises you. 

     People react differently to a smile, than a blank stare. A smile cost nothing but it reaps great rewards for the customer and you. Everybody feels better when a smile appears. It’s uplifting for everyone and it requires very little effort. But that’s nothing compared to a laugh. When you hear someone laugh you start to smile without even thinking. A smile is pleasant but a laugh is contagious. 

     Isn’t happiness the goal for everyone? If you agree why wait for it to randomly appear. You can jump start it by putting a smile on your face every morning. At first it will seem fake but after a while it will be your go-to look. Strangers will smile back, and your day will feel brighter. There's only one downside to a smile. I caution you, be careful because smiles lead to laughter. You may find yourself talking and laughing with total strangers. Is that possible? Yes, I know it sounds crazy but it can happen.

     I wish everyone a Happy New Year and hope you smile your way through the year. Try it, I promise it doesn’t hurt.

Thanks and Merry Christmas

I’d like to wish everyone on my friends list a Merry Merry Christmas. Each of you has had a positive impact on my life in different ways. I don’t get to see everyone often, but I enjoy those times we get together and the post or comments you write. The world is filled with both positivity and negativity. In my life the positive things outweigh the negative, so that makes me lucky. Just know that you are one of the positive things in my life. Enjoy the holiday and thanks for bringing happiness into other peoples lives. To quote Clark Griswold.

Have a very Merry Christmas and a Hap Hap Happy New Year! . . . . Where’s the Tylenol?