I am saddened by news regarding
suicides. I think by now we all know that suicide is an illness that has
devastating results if not treated. Most recently it was the Missouri
state auditor that chose to take his life, over what he considered negative
words or comments about him. Many kind words were spoken about the
auditor but harsh words may have been the catalyst, which drove him to a
tragic decision but these harsh words are not the root of the problem.
Kids will get picked on by
other kids, it’s true. It’s not right but it’s a fact and thus is
life. I’ve never known anyone that has not experienced some type of
harassment during his or her life. It would be great if things like this
never happened but that’s not the case and it likely never will be.
If you are “Thin skinned”
you will be hurt by words much easier than someone who has a “Thick
Skin”. This does not justify someone using harsh words or lying about you
but it can be a defense mechanism against these lies especially for those
involved in politics.
Here’s a lesson from my
Mom at a young age, “Just laugh it off, if they see it doesn’t bother you they
will quit.” The more someone can get underneath your skin with words the
more they take control. There are times when you may need to verbally
fight these harsh words but many times it’s best to “Laugh it off”. The thing is you can't "laugh
off" depression.
Unfortunately, some people still believe there is a
stigma in getting treated for depression but living with a stigma is still
living. Get Help, if you are thinking about making a life altering
decision. Suicide is a permanent decision that impacts many people close
to you. “Just Saying….”
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